Cat Got Your Tongue?

Because I've seen this situation one time too many and have also experienced some level of deception by someone I thought was at least still a friend, this post has become necessary, a Public Service Announcement, if you will. LADIES, if you broke up with your man, but have agreed to remain friends, the safest thing for you to do, considering that you'll probably be the one having the harder time letting go, is to assume that you will NEVER be privy to information about him and another female. The fact of the matter is that when he's done, he's done and that he in no wise feels obligated to even simply inform you about a budding romance with another woman. Regardless of how much he tries to convince you that you two are still friends and about how much your friendship means to him, DO NOT under any circumstances make excuses for his evasive behavior. It's probably best to conclude that the relationship and friendship alike are things of the past. Take note.